Do you like to listen to music? Do you hum along or sing some of the lyrics of the song and surprise yourself that you even remember them? I think that most people do like music, but if you really take the time to listen to those lyrics that we are singing along with I think that we would discover something important. The songs are great, but so sad. For the most part they talk about lost love or having to watch a significant other going with another person. They might even tell us that they have had too much to drink and could they be forgiven for what they have done to their relationship.
The point is the songs seem hopeless, the relationships dysfunctional and the looming ending will come to no good. There is no permanence, respect for the other or even a glimmer of the possibility of happiness. Those songs, while the music and the beat are catchy, do not paint a life that most of us want to live. Perhaps your life is like that or after hearing the message so much it is accepted that we can’t have a lasting healthy relationship. God did not mean life for us to be hopeless or loveless. God’s love is everlasting, hopeful, respectful and meant to lead us to happiness. Oh, sure we have problems, but if we have someone to walk with our problems carry half the weight.
It is Lent, a time for self-reflection for communication with our best friend: God. The world and pop culture tell us all sorts of nonsense. God’s message is constant and ever loving. God shows us how to love Him and each other. Just because the world’s message is louder does not mean that it is true. The volume gets in the way. God speaks softly. We really must listen. Take some time out to read scripture thoughtfully. Stop in a church and visit your friend God. That would be like going over your best friend’s house. Maybe you’ll be surprised with your conversation.
Bible Vs. Jer. 29:11 “For surely I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans for your welfare and not for harm to give you a future with hope.”
Prayer: Oh, Lord, there is so much noise around me. It drowns out your word. I try and try to listen, but I grow very weak and tired. Help me to hear your words of hope and to trust you. I have been betrayed so many times, but then again so were you. It is hard for me to “forgive them” as you showed me. I just want to avoid another relationship, so I fear trying again. Help me to strengthen my relationship with you so that I can recognize the friend that truly loves me. Thank you, Lord for never leaving me.